quitting the rat race, the easy way
I notice a lot of articles like this at CNN’s personal finance site. I have to admit a certain amount of irritation at the gloating tone of ‘people who have managed to quit the rat race’ as that’s interpreted by whoever is doing this work at CNN.
In this article, a childless couple, both working at apparently lucrative jobs, decide to ‘live frugally’ and take the big step for one of them to ‘quit the rat race’ and start working for a non-profit. At age 42 the wife used $20,000 of their money to start a nonprofit.
Starting a non-profit that does what theirs does (working with abused children) is admirable, don’t get me wrong. For CNN to portray an executive couple who drop one salary as daring, bold and risky is annoying. They still have one executive salary. They have no children to support. They have health insurance. They only used $20,000 to start the nonprofit, so if they were making ‘mid-six-figures’ – both of them – prior to starting it, that’s hardly a massive amount. I doubt, for example, they were cashing out their retirement savings or raising money on their almost-maxed-out credit card.
To me, a truly impressive feat is when you read about a single mother doing something like this. My wife ‘quit the rat race’ to raise our son, and we did it living in a very expensive area. She was not an executive before quitting, and I was not either (I was senior management). We managed to do the same thing this couple did, effectively, and we’ve managed to live well enough to accumulate $20,000 if we needed or wanted to start a not-for-profit. We wouldn’t, since then Bubelah would have to juggle child-care with the not-for-profit work and we’re not prepared to do that at this point. Yet we could.
I guess my point is that once you introduce children into the mix doing something like this (quitting the rat race, running a marathon, going to do charitable work in Nepal) becomes exponentially more difficult, both financially and organizationally. I have to be honest and say that I don’t find it impressive if a childless couple decides that one of them should drop out of the rat race. Admirable, sure. Impressive, no. If they share a home and don’t spend like average Americans one salary should be plenty. If you add kids to the mix, balancing the money becomes very difficult and finding the time becomes nearly impossible – unless you plan to ditch your kid in day care 10 hours a day.
So again, I’m not knocking the aspect of starting a not-for-profit at all, but painting it as some sort of heroic achievement against the odds is a little bit irritating to me.

New Jersey has done it again. New Jersey’s government has ‘discovered’ that the guaranteed health benefits for its retired public workers are underfunded by $58 billion according to the New York Times. Leaving aside any political implications, there were a few comments I had to pick out of the article:
An FSA can be a valuable way to save money, but you may actually be wasting your money if you aren’t careful. A Flexible Spending Account, or FSA, is a tax-advantaged account that allows individuals to set aside portions of their earned income for certain purposes: public transportation, parking, dependent care and the most common type, health care expenses. Simply put, you set aside an amount you choose, pre-tax, each month in a pre-funded account and then withdraw it when you need it. My plan, for example, gives me a benefits Mastercard that is essentially a pre-paid credit card.
Updegrave analyzes this question well, and very objectively, so read his article first. He points out that although financial ‘experts’ are very fond of the “10-percent return from the market historically” phrase, $100,000 invested in a NASDAQ index fund in 2000 would be worth $66,000 today. The market is full of risk, and I think too often people forget that. You can look at long-term returns but the reality is that if you suddenly get laid off or have health problems, you don’t want that money stuck out in the market at $66,000 when you have a home equity debt of $100,000 +.
