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		<title>By: Steve</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Sep 2010 02:49:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@kl:  Exactly the point, right?  It&#039;s sad that we don&#039;t all have an &quot;independent adviser&quot; resting on our shoulder telling us what&#039;s reasonable and what&#039;s ridiculous.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@kl:  Exactly the point, right?  It&#8217;s sad that we don&#8217;t all have an &#8220;independent adviser&#8221; resting on our shoulder telling us what&#8217;s reasonable and what&#8217;s ridiculous.</p>
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		<title>By: kl</title>
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		<dc:creator>kl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Sep 2010 13:58:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I remember a colleague that was off work a few weeks. When she came back, she told me she had been on sick leave because of some sort of infection in her digestive system. The doctor had said that one of the reasons the condition developed was  because she did not eat regularly (always skipped lunches) etc.

It was close to lunch time so I said, &quot;OK, will you jon us for lunch then?&quot; She said &quot;I&#039;m sorry, I have too much work. I will maybe grab a sandwich later.&quot;

She never saw the irony. She was able to be 3 weeks off due to her own stupid eating decisions, and no one missed her. Yet she still had an illusion that she could no take 30 minutes off - at the risk of another sick leave.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I remember a colleague that was off work a few weeks. When she came back, she told me she had been on sick leave because of some sort of infection in her digestive system. The doctor had said that one of the reasons the condition developed was  because she did not eat regularly (always skipped lunches) etc.</p>
<p>It was close to lunch time so I said, &#8220;OK, will you jon us for lunch then?&#8221; She said &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry, I have too much work. I will maybe grab a sandwich later.&#8221;</p>
<p>She never saw the irony. She was able to be 3 weeks off due to her own stupid eating decisions, and no one missed her. Yet she still had an illusion that she could no take 30 minutes off &#8211; at the risk of another sick leave.</p>
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		<title>By: RV Ratings</title>
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		<dc:creator>RV Ratings</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 16:32:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>waaaa same here...</description>
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		<dc:creator>Techno Info &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Mint.com’s Twitter Feature: Money Tweets!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jan 2010 05:16:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Shawanda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shawanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 05:41:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Once when I was stressing about a client engagement, a wise colleague of mine put it all in perspective. She said, &quot;we&#039;re not saving lives here.&quot; I can&#039;t say I calmed down immediately, but I felt a bit relieved being reminded no one would lose their life if I missed a deadline. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;A company I used to work for encouraged us to stay home if we were sick. But I felt that was more out of concern we&#039;d infect other people with our germs and slow down productivity for everyone. That&#039;s understandable. But working from home when you&#039;re sick seems to slow down the bodies ability to fight off disease. You should be resting.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;At times, a simple cold would linger for weeks when the worst of it should&#039;ve been over in 2 or 3 days. Doesn&#039;t that slow down productivity as well? &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I love my country, but I think this is an area we can stand to improve in.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Once when I was stressing about a client engagement, a wise colleague of mine put it all in perspective. She said, &#8220;we&#39;re not saving lives here.&#8221; I can&#39;t say I calmed down immediately, but I felt a bit relieved being reminded no one would lose their life if I missed a deadline. </p>
<p>A company I used to work for encouraged us to stay home if we were sick. But I felt that was more out of concern we&#39;d infect other people with our germs and slow down productivity for everyone. That&#39;s understandable. But working from home when you&#39;re sick seems to slow down the bodies ability to fight off disease. You should be resting.</p>
<p>At times, a simple cold would linger for weeks when the worst of it should&#39;ve been over in 2 or 3 days. Doesn&#39;t that slow down productivity as well? </p>
<p>I love my country, but I think this is an area we can stand to improve in.</p>
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		<title>By: Shawanda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shawanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 22:41:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Once when I was stressing about a client engagement, a wise colleague of mine put it all in perspective. She said, &quot;we&#039;re not saving lives here.&quot; I can&#039;t say I calmed down immediately, but I felt a bit relieved being reminded no one would lose their life if I missed a deadline. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;A company I used to work for encouraged us to stay home if we were sick. But I felt that was more out of concern we&#039;d infect other people with our germs and slow down productivity for everyone. That&#039;s understandable. But working from home when you&#039;re sick seems to slow down the bodies ability to fight off disease. You should be resting.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;At times, a simple cold would linger for weeks when the worst of it should&#039;ve been over in 2 or 3 days. Doesn&#039;t that slow down productivity as well? &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I love my country, but I think this is an area we can stand to improve in.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Once when I was stressing about a client engagement, a wise colleague of mine put it all in perspective. She said, &#8220;we&#39;re not saving lives here.&#8221; I can&#39;t say I calmed down immediately, but I felt a bit relieved being reminded no one would lose their life if I missed a deadline. </p>
<p>A company I used to work for encouraged us to stay home if we were sick. But I felt that was more out of concern we&#39;d infect other people with our germs and slow down productivity for everyone. That&#39;s understandable. But working from home when you&#39;re sick seems to slow down the bodies ability to fight off disease. You should be resting.</p>
<p>At times, a simple cold would linger for weeks when the worst of it should&#39;ve been over in 2 or 3 days. Doesn&#39;t that slow down productivity as well? </p>
<p>I love my country, but I think this is an area we can stand to improve in.</p>
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		<title>By: bubelah</title>
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		<dc:creator>bubelah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 11:30:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My sister is a doctor. Steve, you know that even she takes vacations. Even though she saves lives and performs surgeries, she is still human and she has a family. She plans ahead. However, she is very, very reluctant to take a sick day off or a personal day. I think, she&#039;s never done it, even when she or her son feels suddenly sick.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My sister is a doctor. Steve, you know that even she takes vacations. Even though she saves lives and performs surgeries, she is still human and she has a family. She plans ahead. However, she is very, very reluctant to take a sick day off or a personal day. I think, she&#39;s never done it, even when she or her son feels suddenly sick.</p>
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		<title>By: Bonefish Grill recipe: Salmon topped with Spinach, Bacon &#38; Gorgonzola Bleu Cheese</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bonefish Grill recipe: Salmon topped with Spinach, Bacon &#38; Gorgonzola Bleu Cheese</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 16:05:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: curtis_p</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 05:29:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a student who has worked in the Middle East on a co-op as an international salesperson at the mere age of 19, I understand that vacations are needed to stay &quot;fresh&quot; as my whole world was turned upside down in an instant, with little chance to catch my feet (until I fully began ENJOYING my vacations) before I had a total mental breakdown.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Though, many small business owners lose that feel of &quot;connection&quot;, and also that &quot;edge&quot; when they leave their businesses for more than a couple of days at a time.  They ARE the business - they are payroll, sales, accounting (sometimes), maintenance, human resources, etc. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Case in point: a former business partner of my father that has owned a successful industrial equipment business for many years recently took a 3-day, fully paid, all-inclusive, vendor-funded vacation to a Cuban relaxation resort.  One of VERY few vacations he takes other than annual deer-hunting, after his plane was lay-overed another day, he was itching in his pants to get back to the business.  The kind of relationships made in business can BECOME your life!  Your friends are met through business in small towns (as you regularly deal with the same people, and you have probably ALREADY known them all your life), your respect, character, and personal committment to customers lies on the line, and you become emotionally attached to your &quot;baby&quot; which you have been beside ever since its infancy.  Vacations are what you make of them I think, but once I experience more life, maybe my views on that subject will change. . . .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a student who has worked in the Middle East on a co-op as an international salesperson at the mere age of 19, I understand that vacations are needed to stay &#8220;fresh&#8221; as my whole world was turned upside down in an instant, with little chance to catch my feet (until I fully began ENJOYING my vacations) before I had a total mental breakdown.</p>
<p>Though, many small business owners lose that feel of &#8220;connection&#8221;, and also that &#8220;edge&#8221; when they leave their businesses for more than a couple of days at a time.  They ARE the business &#8211; they are payroll, sales, accounting (sometimes), maintenance, human resources, etc. </p>
<p>Case in point: a former business partner of my father that has owned a successful industrial equipment business for many years recently took a 3-day, fully paid, all-inclusive, vendor-funded vacation to a Cuban relaxation resort.  One of VERY few vacations he takes other than annual deer-hunting, after his plane was lay-overed another day, he was itching in his pants to get back to the business.  The kind of relationships made in business can BECOME your life!  Your friends are met through business in small towns (as you regularly deal with the same people, and you have probably ALREADY known them all your life), your respect, character, and personal committment to customers lies on the line, and you become emotionally attached to your &#8220;baby&#8221; which you have been beside ever since its infancy.  Vacations are what you make of them I think, but once I experience more life, maybe my views on that subject will change. . . .</p>
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		<title>By: Big-D</title>
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		<dc:creator>Big-D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 20:38:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The reason I see it is Blame.  Hear me out.  Every person is responsible for their jobs, but even in team environments, individuals have responsibilities for their daily tasks.  What happens if someone leaves for a week or two.  The company does not come to a halt.  If someone who does not normally do something have to do that task while the other person is gone, there are three issues.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;1) They person doing the work has no motivation to do their best, learn the duties, etc. as it is not &quot;their&quot; task to perform on a regular basis.  Plus any screw-ups, they can blame on lack of training.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;2) The person on vacation is held accountable for the work that is being done &quot;in their name&quot; while they are gone on vacation.  If the person that is doing their work is unprofessional while they are gone, then they are the one who will not get the fat promotion, get reprimanded, etc.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;3) Management does not harbor teams which enable cross training, and good will to other members of the team.  If they do try, they are usually undermined by the people on their team.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;At the end of the day, it is a cycle.  Until that cycle and environment are broken, you wont get out of it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The reason I see it is Blame.  Hear me out.  Every person is responsible for their jobs, but even in team environments, individuals have responsibilities for their daily tasks.  What happens if someone leaves for a week or two.  The company does not come to a halt.  If someone who does not normally do something have to do that task while the other person is gone, there are three issues.  </p>
<p>1) They person doing the work has no motivation to do their best, learn the duties, etc. as it is not &#8220;their&#8221; task to perform on a regular basis.  Plus any screw-ups, they can blame on lack of training.</p>
<p>2) The person on vacation is held accountable for the work that is being done &#8220;in their name&#8221; while they are gone on vacation.  If the person that is doing their work is unprofessional while they are gone, then they are the one who will not get the fat promotion, get reprimanded, etc.  </p>
<p>3) Management does not harbor teams which enable cross training, and good will to other members of the team.  If they do try, they are usually undermined by the people on their team.  </p>
<p>At the end of the day, it is a cycle.  Until that cycle and environment are broken, you wont get out of it.</p>
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		<title>By: LuluGal</title>
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		<dc:creator>LuluGal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 15:30:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So are you considering a transfer to the Toronto office? Or are you suggesting a similar thing be done at the New York office?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So are you considering a transfer to the Toronto office? Or are you suggesting a similar thing be done at the New York office?</p>
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		<title>By: LuluGal</title>
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		<dc:creator>LuluGal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 15:29:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think people need to learn how to relax and when you are on vacation then BE on vacation. I know a girl who still came up to the workplace on her day off because she was &#039;bored at home&#039;. Really? I love when I get vacation time....I don&#039;t take calls or log in to work email...I just enjoy the mental break. The thing is I have things set up so that my class can run smoothly if I am not there (I am a teacher) so when I am sick or have to take a day off I don&#039;t worry.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think people need to learn how to relax and when you are on vacation then BE on vacation. I know a girl who still came up to the workplace on her day off because she was &#39;bored at home&#39;. Really? I love when I get vacation time&#8230;.I don&#39;t take calls or log in to work email&#8230;I just enjoy the mental break. The thing is I have things set up so that my class can run smoothly if I am not there (I am a teacher) so when I am sick or have to take a day off I don&#39;t worry.</p>
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		<title>By: kenyantykoon</title>
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		<dc:creator>kenyantykoon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 15:10:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i have heard of this thing in gernany. it is called killer week and they never do any work. What they do is that they head off to some places like islands and fun fairs and stuff and party all night(literally) and get drunk. It seems like the place to be and i have a feeling that this break really does a lot to increase employee performance. We should have one of those in out countries. But i also think that i would not go for a vacation without having some way to stay in touch with my businesses. Workaholics!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i have heard of this thing in gernany. it is called killer week and they never do any work. What they do is that they head off to some places like islands and fun fairs and stuff and party all night(literally) and get drunk. It seems like the place to be and i have a feeling that this break really does a lot to increase employee performance. We should have one of those in out countries. But i also think that i would not go for a vacation without having some way to stay in touch with my businesses. Workaholics!!</p>
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		<title>By: funnyaboutmoney</title>
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		<dc:creator>funnyaboutmoney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 15:01:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good post. IMHO, Chad has got something. One of my favorite bosses remarked one time, when he was talking about a period of unemployment after he was laid off a job, that when he was out of work he felt like he was worthless. I think the words he used were &quot;I felt like I was nothing.&quot; His sense of who and what he was -- a very fine editor, indeed -- was so tied up in what he did that when he wasn&#039;t working he didn&#039;t feel good about himself.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And come to think of it, the guy rarely took a vacation. He would link up his vacation hours with three-day weekends to give himself four- and five-day weekends, but he never went away from the office long enough to really unwind.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good post. IMHO, Chad has got something. One of my favorite bosses remarked one time, when he was talking about a period of unemployment after he was laid off a job, that when he was out of work he felt like he was worthless. I think the words he used were &#8220;I felt like I was nothing.&#8221; His sense of who and what he was &#8212; a very fine editor, indeed &#8212; was so tied up in what he did that when he wasn&#39;t working he didn&#39;t feel good about himself.</p>
<p>And come to think of it, the guy rarely took a vacation. He would link up his vacation hours with three-day weekends to give himself four- and five-day weekends, but he never went away from the office long enough to really unwind.</p>
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		<title>By: Meg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Meg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 13:56:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*sigh* Sorry about the typo (I need coffee). I meant to say &quot;malpractice risk.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*sigh* Sorry about the typo (I need coffee). I meant to say &#8220;malpractice risk.&#8221;</p>
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