guest post: learning to truly love what you have
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I’m on a mission in my house to abolish almost all long term storage. The motivation, at first, came from the fact we moved into a home that has less than ideal indoor closet space, and when I stored some items in our garden shed, they were attacked by vicious cardboard-chewing ants. It became clear to me if I wanted to use the shed for storage I would have to invest in plastic airtight tubs, and I wasn’t financially able to do so right away. As I plotted and saved for my ant-repelling tubs, I started going through all the things that now cluttered our bedroom in boxes waiting to be stored and realized – there’s not much point in having stuff if you aren’t going to use it or even look at it for the majority of its existence.
So I decided right then and there to mostly abolish the idea of long term storage in our lives. I still have some storage – pantry storage for when I stock up on a sale item, and seasonal storage for clothing (it wouldn’t be very frugal to get rid of my kids summer clothing just because it is winter if they haven’t outgrown it) but no more storing things “just in case” we might need it 15 years from now. I have allowed a small amount of “sentimental” storage for items that have emotional meaning in our lives, but no more storing something just because it works and we have it, even though we have no intention of using it… ever.
But being a frugal person, or at least,, I couldn’t just recycle or donate everything that was once in a box. I have recycled some of it, donated some, and I did , but I also rediscovered things I’d forgotten we had. For example, baseball mitts, bowling balls, pool cues, roller blades, and more, pieces of a life we led before we had children and had a lot more free time. But now that I’ve found it, I’m committed to putting these things back into use. I can teach my son to play catch, I can rollerblade around our quiet neighborhood with my spouse, the whole family can go bowling on a discount night.
Combing through the clutter has also allowed me to rediscover clothing I’d forgotten about and can wear again, and also helped me to be able to let go of clothing that I’ve been hanging on to “just in case” I might fit it again sometime. It is like I found a whole new wardrobe, and I never left the house. Getting rid of things that were just cluttering up my closet lets the ones that I really want to wear stand out and be noticed.
I still have a long way to go., boxes of sentimental items I haven’t quite figured out what stays and what goes, but in all of it, I have a newfound appreciation for what we do have. And that’s truly helped me “want” less new and appreciate what I already have more.