• There's that old saying, 'You have to love yourself first, before you can love anyone or anything else'
    Otherwise, you're just using them as a crutch.
  • I like this train of thought you got going on here. The honour of taking care of one's own self-development, the then versus the now, and the self-defeating results of those acts. Did you just finish Fountainhead? :)
  • Dana, I think you misinterpreted what I wrote. I'm not suggesting that you should drop everything to focus on your own self-development. I simply meant that if you make yourself miserable working at a job you hate, for example, you're not doing anyone around you a favor - or yourself. You have to focus on your own self-development before you can be a good parent, or spouse, or child, etc.

    Fountainhead's really more of an ode to the ego, and I'm simply stating that too often we shove aside our own concerns (health, happiness, etc.) that, in the end, cause problems to others if they aren't attended to. But if that didn't come across clearly in my post then I suppose I need to work more on my writing...
  • I'm not sure whether it really is better to concentrate on your own self development at the expense of your family or your neighbourhood. I mean that there should be a balance - some people focus too much on the external, but others focus too much on the internal. I'm more of an internal person myself.
  • Carrie
    Umm...Steve - in my reader there was a picture/advertisement for Dianetics. I'm pretty sure you're not an Elron Hubbard follower, but wanted you to be aware. And officially scared of your posts.
  • @Carrie - nope, I'm not a Scientologist - and sorry you're scared of my posts!
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